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Shoulda, coulda, woulda
Every morning, I remind myself to appreciate my first breath because we never know when it will be our last. This might seem morbid to...

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Have fun, be you
“Live and work but do not forget to play, to have fun in life and really enjoy it.” Eileen Caddy A big bonus of working in childcare is...

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Anything wrong with wanting to be first?
It depends in what context. For example, let’s say Jason often loses his cool when he’s not first in line, or to answer the question or...

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A waterpark freak accident
A few summers ago my family and I were excited to spend the day at a water park. It was a gorgeous, sunny, hot day. As we walked through...

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Stick and stones
What are you here for? Go away. Why does your voice sound like that? I’m annoyed by you speaking. Your French sucks. You look like your...

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What's important vs what's not
Over a decade ago, I learned a valuable lesson as a therapist for children with autism. Working in an applied behaviour analysis setting,...

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Nuts and bolts
Before I headed outdoors to check on the pre-schoolers, I noticed their educator searching for something. She told me the coat hanger...

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From darkness to light
I often still reflect on this special story.. A couple of years ago, I picked up a new child from my caseload. When I called the before...

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Letting out air
We all do it. In different ways. To let out steam during difficult emotions, some of us use colourful language. Or we raise our voices,...

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But what about the consequences?
If I had a dollar every time, I heard this…. This came from a supervisor. The child who I was supporting sometimes loses his cool. And...

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Role reversal
Last year, my behaviour consultant role was reversed. My partner picked up our son from childcare and his educator shared that a peer...

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They're bad kids
Those were the words used to describe two children. One who frequents a section 23 classroom. And another who got in an altercation and...

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Stuff in the way
Once my co-worker shared that a program was struggling. The children weren’t engaged or listening. She mentioned their classroom was a...

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Why being authentic isn't always the best advice
Has someone ever told you “Just be yourself or authentic?” Those were the kind words my co-worker said before we ended our virtual...

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Planned ignoring
Have you ever ignored a child’s challenging behaviour to sidestep a tantrum or meltdown? Sometimes, this strategy proves helpful, but...

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Return on investments
One childcare I collaborated with was having a tough time. One of their new hires was leaving in one week. And it’s hard to find supply...

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Reality and Time
Have you ever tried something for a few days or weeks and stopped because it didn’t seem to work? Maybe it was a personal goal like...

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Rainbows
As I walked in a school’s hallway, a little boy in junior kindergarten was being shouted at to “sit and stare at the wall.” It seemed to...

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Am I on the hook?
Sometimes we might not know. Or think we aren’t. But we often get to choose. When we do, we take responsibility. We show up. We’re...

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Mood
I’m a strong believer that little things make a big difference. Rewind to Tuesday morning. I didn’t get much sleep, hit the snooze at...

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